Photos: Faiza Ally Spends Good Time With Her Alleged New Millionaire Boyfriend In Dubai

After staying lonely for months following her separation wit baby daddy and Mbeya Mjini member of Parliament Sugu Joseph Mbilinyi, finally actress Faiza Ally is in a relationship again. Faiza has been in Dubai since last week and sources say that she is there to see her new boyfriend who is said to be a millionaire.

"Faiza is in Dubai to see her millionaire boyfriend she got recently" the source told Swahiliworldplanet

We tried to reach the controversial celeb and when asked about it she said that it is true she is with her new man in Dubai but she denied her boyfriend being a millionaire, she also said that their relationship isn't serious yet so when it becomes mature everyone will know all about him.

Anyhow, congrats to them and we pray for you Faiza and your boo..............

Source:Swahili Planet

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Filed Under: love and sex on Tuesday, 19 May 2015 No Comments

STAA AFUMWA AKIFANYA MAPENZI LIVE KWENYE CHOO CHA CLUB...TAZAMA TUKIO ZIMA HAPA

 

Staa Mmoja Maarufu Jina Kapuni kwenye Tasnia ya Bongo Flava Amejikuta katika Aibu Kubwa Baada ya Kufumwa Akibinjuka na Msichana ambae jina halikuweza fahamika kwenye choo cha Club Moja Maarufu Hapa Dar, Walipoulizwa inadawa walijitetea kuwa wamezidiwa.

Udaku Specially Tumetumiwa Picha bila Maelezo Mengi ..Jionee Mwenyewe Kwenye Picha

-Udakuspecially

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Filed Under: love and sex on Sunday, 17 May 2015 No Comments

DOKTA AONYA MIMBA YA AUNT!

Stori: Gladness Mallya na Musa Mateja

TABIA za mitoko ya usiku matembezini, uvaaji viatu virefu na unywaji pombe unaofanywa na wamama wajawazito, kama alivyo sasa muigizaji Aunt Ezekiel, zimeelezewa kuwa si nzuri na zina uwezekano mkubwa wa kusababisha madhara kwa mtoto anayetarajiwa kuzaliwa.

Mkali katika tasnia ya filamu Bongo, Aunt Ezekiel.

Akizungumza baada ya kuulizwa na gazeti hili juu ya mwenendo wa muigizaji Aunt Ezekiel ambaye mara kadhaa huonekana akiwa ‘viwanja’ usiku, daktari mtaalamu wa magonjwa ya kina mama na watoto, aliyejitambulisha kwa jina moja la Dokta Chale, alisema utokaji wa usiku na uvaaji wa viatu virefu unaweza kusababisha matatizo ya nyonga, shida wakati wa kujifungua, miguu kuuma na uvimbe kwenye vifundo vya miguu ‘enka’.

Kuhusu unywaji pombe, Dokta Chale alisema endapo mama mjamzito atafanya tabia hiyo, ipo hatari ya uelewa wa mtoto katika ukuaji wake kuwa mdogo na pia kuchukua tabia zote za mama yake.



...Akizidi kujiachia.

“Viatu virefu na mitoko ya usiku kwa mama mjamzito ina madhara makubwa sana kwani mtoto atakuwa na uelewa mdogo, yaani akili yake inakuwa haikui sawasawa, kifupi ana-adapti (kuiga) tabia zote za mama yake anaweza kuwa zezeta kama mama anatumia pombe,” alisema. Katika kudhihirisha kuwa ustaa ni kazi kubwa, licha ya ujauzito wake kuonekana mkubwa, Aunt Ezekiel amekuwa akijirusha kama kawaida sehemu mbalimbali nyakati za usiku huku wakati mwingine akiwa amevaa viatu virefu by publisher

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Filed Under: love and sex on Wednesday, 31 December 2014 No Comments

11 Mistakes That Men Make During Sex

For the past couple of weeks we’ve had a lively discussion about intimacy and it’s various meanings.

This whole discussion started off with the question, what’s the difference between intimacy and sex? Since your host of the Simple Marriage Project is a guy, I thought I’d take a moment and cover the easier of the two topics in the question. And let’s look at them through the lens of common mistakes.

A word of warning, this post is a bit more graphic than previous posts on the subject. Adults only please.

While both genders commit sexual faux pas, this time I’m targeting us men.

So as a Christmas gift to you male readers – or maybe it’s a gift to your wife – or maybe it’s a gift to both of you! - here are a few blunders to avoid while being intimate and having sex with your wife:

1. Pursuing her only in bed. At the end of a long, busy day, as you climb into the sheets together, if there’s been no pre-game, it’s less likely that the main event is going to take place. Think of pursing your lover as an all day affair. Women love to be wooed. And the best wooing can be of her mind. Let her know you’re thinking about her. You desire her.

2. Not speaking up or being direct. Many men fall victim to the idea that sex will just happen. It’s part of marriage, right? If you believe this then little more effort than “hey honey, wanna do it?” may be made. Or the issue may be brought up via passive language, “so are we going to have sex tonight?” While you may think there’s nothing wrong with this last statement, wording it that way makes it seem like an obligation. Another thing on the to-do list. Try being a bit more direct, “baby, I want you.”

3. Letting yourself go. While you may have said “for better or worse” and this may include some fluctuations in weight, don’t let yourself go completely. Moving from the wash board abs to the round rock abs may be a bit of an inevitability over time, don’t rush it. Your wife wants a husband who takes care of himself – from your basic hygiene, to how you dress, to what shape you’re in – physically, mentally, and spiritually.

4. Going south too soon, or not at all. Diving in for the genitals too soon, whether this be by hand or orally, usually isn’t the best idea. Your wife needs to be properly aroused before heading south. Focus on her whole body. Head to toe. And don’t forget her mind. For those who don’t go at all, that may be fine with your wife, or it may not. Have you asked her? Talk about your thoughts on the subject together.

One thing I’ve come across while counseling “good Christian” clients is a guilty feeling tied to the oral sex subject. To combat whether or not oral sex is Biblical, spend some time reading Song of Solomon.


5. Ignoring, or not knowing, the clitoris. Many men may think a woman’s orgasmic ability is due to penetration. And while there is pleasure during penetration, a major player for her is on the sidelines.

The clitoris’ only function is pleasure – so don’t ignore her prime-time performer. If you’re one of the many men who don’t know what I’m talking about, go to the library and find an anatomy book. At the risk of TMI, one of the best things for our sex life has been what my wife and I learned during the “sexuality” coursework of my education.

Become a student of her body – she’ll thank you for it.

6. Missing other erogenous zones. Most women have more erogenous areas than simply her breasts, nipples, and genitals. The big three may be the zones that are most stimulating for men during foreplay, but you may want to wait until you’re invited before moving in. Ask her what she likes. And then remember what she tells you!!! Take the time to learn your wife’s other “hot” zones. Neck, shoulders, back, buttocks, and feet are common zones. Generally speaking, their other zones are usually what lights up the big three!

Never forget – the hottest zone of all is between her ears – her mind.

7. Seeking to score for yourself. Many men may seek to just “get some.” Be sure to realize that sex is best when there are two of you playing the game. Learn to stay present in the moment. To follow her lead. And to follow the connection between the two of you. This will lead to the best climaxes for both of you.

8. Not exploring her fantasies. All women have an erotic side. While some may have no idea where this is located, research has found that women are more aroused by explicit fantasies than romantic ones. If you are one who wants to up the role-play or fantasy side of sex, have you taken the lead? If you long for your wife to “dress up” for you and she’s unwilling, how about greeting your wife one evening in costume? Come into the bedroom with only a bow tie on and a towel over your arm as “Jeeves, her butler willing to serve her for the evening.”

9. Thinking she should act like a porn star. Speaking of fantasies, one of the many terrible things depicted in pornography is the thought that she should fulfill your every fantasy. This is not reality. She is not an object, don’t treat her as such.

10. Believing once is enough for her. She just had a through the roof orgasm, she’s perfectly content, right? Wrong. Many women are not near as quick to come down from their revved up state as men. Even if you’re content, don’t rule out the second half, or even overtime. There are many other ways of pleasing her. There’s the whistle, get back in the game.

A word of caution – make sure she’s the one interested in more. Men can turn the pursuit of more into a personal scorecard – “The more orgasms I can give her, the better lover I am.” Not true if she’s either satisfied or not made for multiples. If that’s the case, then you’re manipulating her body to stroke your ego -“ and that’s never sexy!

11. Going too fast. If there’s one bit of advice I’ve given almost every couple I’ve counseled when it comes to sex it’s this: slow down. Take your time with each other. Enjoy the moments together. If you only have time for a “quickie” then this may not apply. But if you’ve got the time together, don’t rush it. Slow down. Relax. And enjoy!

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Filed Under: love and sex on Thursday, 19 December 2013 No Comments

10 MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE DURING SEX

When it comes to a couple’s sex life, there are many things that will cause it to ebb and flow. Everyday stresses with work, kids, schedules, and household tasks are bound to take its toll on sex. With all the things that can preclude intimate moments together with your lover, let’s tackle some of the issues that may come up during the encounters.

Last week I took on my own gender and the mistakes men can make during sex. Now it’s the ladies turn.

And another word of warning, this post continues the “gutsy” approach to the topic by addressing things honestly. Adults only please.

1. Trading in hot momma for mommy. Motherhood does not make you celibate. Unless that is your conscious choice. While the rigors of being a mom can impact your sexual desires, it most likely doesn’t extinguish it. You need to nurture your sex life. Leave him and yourself little notes to discover during the day. Wear something sexy under your normal childcare uniform or business attire. Do something that helps you remember you are a sexual goddess.

Research has found that a happy and healthy marriage is the best thing you can do for your children.

2. Unresponsiveness in the sack. Sex with a corpse is not a good thing. Don’t just lie there. Get involved. Move. Make some noise. If sex isn’t pleasurable for you, what’s missing? Try different positions, or locations throughout the house. Whatever ignites things for you.

3. Not speaking up or being direct. Similar to men, women can fall victim to the idea that your partner will know or sense what’s going on with you. If something is going on you don’t enjoy, speak up. While it may dampen the mood, when you’re honest and communicate your needs, you get the chance to experience even more during sex together.Also, if he inquires about sex, be honest. There’s a big difference between saying flat out “no” and “not at the moment, but I could be enticed.”

4. Not owning your own body. What most men find as a lasting turn-on more than anything is how a woman carries herself. Her confidence. If you are always down on your body, you can do something about it by working out if you want. But one thing you can for sure do is learn to embrace the skin you’re in. Walk around naked. Have sex with the lights on. When you own your own body, you can flaunt one of your biggest assets, you!

5. Forgetting your feminine side. There are many roles women have thrust upon them today. Caretaker, mother, business woman, boss, manager, chauffeur, nurturer. One of the main roles sometimes lost in our society is that of Eve. The last of God’s creations! The manifestation of God’s beauty! Women are beautifully and wonderfully made. Don’t forget that Eve is the beauty in the story of life. Carry yourself as such, and don’t settle for being seen as less.

6. Insecurity towards other women. Similar to not owning your own body, being constantly threatened by other women is not attractive. Remember your husband chose you, so focus your energies on keeping his eyes on you. Learn to seduce him, tease him, tempt him.

7. Fear of your erotic nature. Many women may fear if they are erotic, they’ll come across as slutty or cheap. That may be just what he wants at times! Have the courage to let go once in a while. Be erotic. Play to his visual nature. Make him notice you. Get on top during sex. Take charge. As the Usher song states, be “a lady in the street but a freak in the bed.”

A common thought is that men are led by two brains. Don’t forget about his northern brain.

8. Not going down. There are some couples who fear oral sex. If you don’t like going down on your husband and he wants you to, have you talked about it? Share your thoughts, listen to his. Are there other things you could do? Sure there are, but blindly hoping they happen usually isn’t good for both of you. Speak up.

Incidentally, if you do go down, no teeth please!

9. Failure to initiate. The number one complaint I hear from men is this issue of their wife not initiating sexual encounters. Perhaps this is due to some of the other points previously made, or something different. When you’re interested in sex, let it be known. Even if he’s at work, send him an email disclosing what’s on your mind.

10. Slow down. Just like the advice for the men, slow down. Take your time together. Enjoy the moments you have together.

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